The fuss about FK & DD - post is deleted!

ahaha! sape sempat bace nasib lah
sape tak sempat baca takyah baca.

why i deleted that post? sebab ye lah mungkin aku takde hak pun. aku tak cakap ape pun cuma aku sedih sebab diorang announce pregnancy awal, ramai orang nak menabur fitnah.
tapi ada komen berbunyi begini yang aku tak sedap:

Adelina said...

hye jay :)
i'm a silent reader of ur blog..
to me biarla dia...
sbb u pon sama jugak dulu , u xsuka org post pic upt or pic scan baby yg baru 6 weeks...
tp skrg u buat jugak...
so just let them , dah rezeki dorg :)

Okay, baik lah.
"sbb u pon sama jugak dulu , u xsuka org post pic upt or pic scan baby yg baru 6 weeks...
tp skrg u buat jugak..." ----> yang post hpt diorang itu di mana? social media kan? instag kan? did i post on facebook? instagram? tidak kan. i post it on my own online journal, not social media.
My own TTC journal yang of course lah aku akan letak gambar positive and the scan pics updated every week/months because that's my blog and my blog pun cuma TTCians dan close friends yang kenal aku je baca. Apakah yang sama nya. did DD and FK berTTC sekian lama? tidak kan.

this is my reply to Adelina:


Hi Adelina, i assumed u just registered ur google account to remain anonymous? no? hehehe takpe i post my 6weeks hpt & scan pics at MY BLOG (yang few people je tau) AS A DRAFT first but didnt publish em until it was confirmed, maksudnya,masa i dah jumpa Sac baru i post all DRAFTs, anyway i post them at MY JOURNAL kot, bukan announce kat social media. and my blog pun only TTCians je yang tau since ada followers dari findingtwolines yang mmg dah tau me one of TTCians yang dah lama, so i post for my own record, not to announce kat fb or twitter, sebab tu ramai of my relatives n even bestfriends dont event know im pregnant. until now pun ramai taktau. u tau sebab u baca my blog but i didnt even know u. of coz lah i memang akan update kalau positive because that was my TTC journey. and bila yg diusahakan selama ni dah mendatangkan hasil, tentulah nak di-update pasal pregnancy tu sebab nak memberi semangat to my TTC friends juga Including you.
it's 2 different thing compared to them. tapi takpe i take ur comment positively, THANKS FOR REMINDING ME THEN. :D
anyway i tak bangkang lansung rezeki diorang, i know people may say "alah kau pun sama" but still tak sama. i tak nikah lepas 16 hari and got pregnant and post the hpt to everyone. my battle is not the same. they are not even battling with any TTC stuffs. this is just a pendapat, bukan judging them. i just kesian disebab kan gambar itu, manusia2 yang takbaik telah menabur fitnah kat diorang, skang u faham tak apa mesg post tadi tu? bukan sebab i jeles noo diorang update gamba hpt tu, tapi sebab gamba tu, ramai betul manusia memfitnah diorang, sedih lah bila baca orang pertikaikan taraf anak orang semua. im more to pissed off sebab mulut org yang fitnah, dari tunjuk gamba hpt tu sebenarnya.
kan i dah tulis previously that Itu memang hak diorang.

Yeah, like u say "JUST LET THEM"
 i just let them dan tak kacau diorang pun hehe!